Saw you at FiLiA Julie and was going to come over and tell you what a fan I am, but you were busy getting livid about what an absolute maze of confusion the Brighton Centre is. I decided it probably wasnt the time,but under my breath I was like "legend". X
Not sold on the "trauma" model either to explain every addiction. Know plenty of people who just enjoy their drug of choice without having had bad experiences in their past. Therapy can work for the right person, at the right time, with the right therapy.
The best answer that I would give to the Dilezza question in Canada, would be to say that you are uncomfortable about talking about personal things at work. The issue is boundaries. Keep it neutral.
Great episode, 3 of my favorite people in one (virtual) room.
Just finished reading Katie's book a few days ago and can really recommend it. Not a drinker myself, but it is still an interesting/funny/touching read, also about growing up, leaving your bad habits behind and some lesbian drama...
I think there's an agnostic group within AA, if the spiritual part is the issue. I quit drinking 5 years ago, albeit without following a program, and it was hands down the best thing I ever did for myself. But there are all sorts of follow-on effects to quitting I can see people needing extra guidance to get through that organized programs can help with. I'm in a sober socializing group, and many of the women there like She Recovers, it might also be an option to look into. I'd really recommend quitting if it becomes even the slightest nuisance in your life.
And you all are WAY TOO NICE about the workplace harassment. :-) If I didn't want to go through the trouble of reporting it (sounds like the guy needs more training on hostile work environments), I'd start responding with things like "Have you prayed to Jesus about your painful sex?" or "Have you talked to your family about your pedophile inclinations?" until it stopped.
A good discussion on alcohol misuse, and alcoholism.
Every woman's experience is different, and every solution is unique, too.
Alcohol is a heavy duty drug. It disinhibits and acts as a central nervous system depressant but also affects the whole body in so many ways. Society has normalised its use. For the last four decades, multi-drug use had become increasingly common which often complicates everything. Clinical help in dealing with this may be essential.
There are a few paths to recovery, and TSM is one worth exploring. The only thing I would add is that it's useful to have a support/peer group in your recovery. It is quite difficult to recover alone. Katie acknowledged that, too. Being in a community is one of the benefits of AA and other self-help groups. Although AA is a 12 Step program it gives people freedom to relate that to their own experience. It is not for everyone, however, and works by attraction, not promotion.
Thanks, Katie. I'll get the Kindle version of your book. I'm sure your publisher will promote It appropriately as well. It needs to be reviewed in health journals as well as mainstream media.
The dilezza issue, I agree, reporting it to HR if in person saying you aren't comfortable talking about personal issues and want to keep conversation professional doesn't stop the problem. Regardless of "gender" or sexual orientation, conversation should be kept professional and if that isn't respected, harassment claims are warranted.
Saw you at FiLiA Julie and was going to come over and tell you what a fan I am, but you were busy getting livid about what an absolute maze of confusion the Brighton Centre is. I decided it probably wasnt the time,but under my breath I was like "legend". X
Not sold on the "trauma" model either to explain every addiction. Know plenty of people who just enjoy their drug of choice without having had bad experiences in their past. Therapy can work for the right person, at the right time, with the right therapy.
The best answer that I would give to the Dilezza question in Canada, would be to say that you are uncomfortable about talking about personal things at work. The issue is boundaries. Keep it neutral.
Great episode, 3 of my favorite people in one (virtual) room.
Just finished reading Katie's book a few days ago and can really recommend it. Not a drinker myself, but it is still an interesting/funny/touching read, also about growing up, leaving your bad habits behind and some lesbian drama...
I think there's an agnostic group within AA, if the spiritual part is the issue. I quit drinking 5 years ago, albeit without following a program, and it was hands down the best thing I ever did for myself. But there are all sorts of follow-on effects to quitting I can see people needing extra guidance to get through that organized programs can help with. I'm in a sober socializing group, and many of the women there like She Recovers, it might also be an option to look into. I'd really recommend quitting if it becomes even the slightest nuisance in your life.
And you all are WAY TOO NICE about the workplace harassment. :-) If I didn't want to go through the trouble of reporting it (sounds like the guy needs more training on hostile work environments), I'd start responding with things like "Have you prayed to Jesus about your painful sex?" or "Have you talked to your family about your pedophile inclinations?" until it stopped.
Okay, look if you have a guest, it should be video not just audio. I guess Kath's and Julie's expressions, but not new people. Whos with me?
A good discussion on alcohol misuse, and alcoholism.
Every woman's experience is different, and every solution is unique, too.
Alcohol is a heavy duty drug. It disinhibits and acts as a central nervous system depressant but also affects the whole body in so many ways. Society has normalised its use. For the last four decades, multi-drug use had become increasingly common which often complicates everything. Clinical help in dealing with this may be essential.
There are a few paths to recovery, and TSM is one worth exploring. The only thing I would add is that it's useful to have a support/peer group in your recovery. It is quite difficult to recover alone. Katie acknowledged that, too. Being in a community is one of the benefits of AA and other self-help groups. Although AA is a 12 Step program it gives people freedom to relate that to their own experience. It is not for everyone, however, and works by attraction, not promotion.
Thanks, Katie. I'll get the Kindle version of your book. I'm sure your publisher will promote It appropriately as well. It needs to be reviewed in health journals as well as mainstream media.
Such a great episode!
The dilezza issue, I agree, reporting it to HR if in person saying you aren't comfortable talking about personal issues and want to keep conversation professional doesn't stop the problem. Regardless of "gender" or sexual orientation, conversation should be kept professional and if that isn't respected, harassment claims are warranted.